How to navigate new sexual situations with new partners
One thing my guest, Claire Perelman, and I agree on is that we don’t talk enough about sex with the people we have it with… even though it can make the entire experience safer and more pleasurable. You’ll come away from this episode with scripts and tips for bringing up conversations that are so important…
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10 helpful reminders for handling rejection in dating
Rejection will happen in your dating life, so you better be prepared! These ten reminders will help you stay grounded and positive when rejection happens, and I hope by listening to this, you’ll be able to shake it off faster. Which reminder did you need to hear the most? DM me on IG and let…
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How to tap into your magnetism & dating as a single mom
Whether you’re dating as a single mom or trying to tap into techniques for manifestation, this episode is for you! In this episode, I talk to business coach Tiffany Cheung about how to tap into your own magnetism and embrace an abundance mentality. We also discuss dating as a single mom. Listen on Spotify Listen…
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5 reasons they lose interest after sex in early dating
It’s common to start dating someone only to have them lose interest after sex in the early stages. Here’s why it happens (and what to do). Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple I’ve seen it repeatedly in my dating life and heard stories about people withdrawing after sex from the Dating Intentionally community. For some…
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Track your dates to get better at dating
Listen to episode 62 of Dating Intentionally on how to track your dates to get better at dating anywhere you listen to podcasts. Spotify Apple YouTube https://youtu.be/QZCTG5oCsZE Have you tried tracking your dates? This episode features Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara For Daters (Not A Dating App), which lets daters track their dates…
How to date outside your type (and why it works)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4v0azYXMTYnrDDuA33jtgn?si=b358f1c40f414eae Dating outside your type seems to work for many people, but how do you do it? And what if it leads to dates where there’s no attraction? This episode walks you through all my tips and tricks for dating outside your type and how to navigate a lack of attraction when it happens. I…
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How to figure out their dating intentions (without scaring them)
This question came from Instagram: “What are your thoughts on asking matches their dating intentions? I want to avoid time thieves!” Don’t we all. Here’s how to navigate this dating dilemma. Know your own dating intentions first. Rule of thumb: don’t ask questions that you don’t know the answer to yourself on a date, especially…
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They’re bad at texting, but they’re great in person
Navigating dating is tricky when your date is bad at texting. Are they interested in you, or are they just a bad texter? This common scenario can lead to frustration and misunderstanding. Does it mean they don’t like you if they’re not texting? If things are great in person, but they go silent when you’re…
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How to stop chasing unavailable people in dating
This question came from Instagram: “What are your tips for how to stop chasing unavailable people and getting out of the ‘he doesn’t want me’ spiral?” If you have more questions like the one above, sign up for my Dating FAQ guide, which provides quick, actionable answers to over 40 common dating questions. Here’s the…
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What to do if they’re still on dating apps (even after great dates with you)
It’s hard to know what to do when your date is still using dating apps. In today’s digital age, a new connection can fizzle or fall through the cracks in so many ways. However, as you navigate this journey, it’s common to encounter a situation where your potential partner remains active on the apps even…
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They’re great on paper, but you’re not attracted to them
When you meet someone who checks all your boxes but you’re not attracted to them, it’s hard to know what to do next. Do you keep dating them or hope attraction shows up? Should you give it more time, or should you cut ties early on? Let’s explore some strategies for navigating this common dating…
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They wanted another date and then disappeared
All the signs that another date would happen were there. Scenario: You’ve been on a few dates with someone who seemed genuinely interested in continuing the journey, only to find their communication gradually tapering off. They may have even said out loud, to your face, that they want another date! It’s a frustrating scenario. However,…
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Everything was going great… until they left town
Scenario: You just started dating someone—maybe you’re four dates in—and things have been going surprisingly well. The conversations flow effortlessly, peppered with jokes and shared interests. You’ve even started to envision the possibility of something more. But just as you’re getting comfortable with this budding connection, your crush drops the bombshell—they’re going on vacation for…
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How To Deal With A”Bad” Kisser In Early Dating
Have you ever met someone incredible, only to find out they’re a bad kisser? That first kiss can be a touching, heartwarming moment; it can ignite a whole bunch of fireworks, or it can turn a fantastic date into a total dud. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rt3bxqjr5Cw When does the first kiss happen? You don’t have to kiss after…
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Who Pays On The First Date? It’s Complicated.
Your view on who pays for the first date and early dates in general is deeply personal and rooted in your beliefs around gender roles, money, your value and the value you put on the other person. Ultimately I hope this episode gives you more clarity about yourself, where you stand on this most importantly,…
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How To Realistically Heal Your Body Image While Dating
Your looks are the least interesting thing about you. If your body image is holding you back from dating, this episode will help! You’ll get at least three exercises from our guest to improve self-worth and how you feel about your body. Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple Is your relationship with your body image…
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How To Build Chemistry In Early Dating
Not sure how to build chemistry in dating? Keep reading to learn. This is a skill you can develop to build richer connections that turn into long-term relationships (as long as compatibility is there!). Chemistry is about alignment and connection. It’s more of a vibe and it’s something that is developed with time. There are…
Why You Need To Stop Chasing Sparks In Dating
Are you chasing sparks in dating? This post breaks down what the spark is, what happens when you chase it and what to do instead. What’s the spark? In dating, the spark is instant physical attraction. It’s more about lust and desire. The spark is a short-term heightened feeling of excitement. It’s the beginning of…
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How To Find Secure Love By Healing Attachment Insecurity
This conversation about healing attachment to find secure love with author and therapist Julie Menanno of @thesecurerelationship was epic and I can’t wait for you to hear it! If you’re serious about getting into a secure relationship, don’t skip this episode. Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple If you’re wondering how to heal attachment insecurity…
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The Best Advice For Your Dating Life in 2024
Could 2024 be the year you improve your dating life and find love (or at least enjoy the process of dating? These are my top ten tips for intentional dating – meaning dating with a purpose, and not letting just anyone into your life. There’s a lot of dating intentionally advice out there and it’s…
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How To Stay Grounded In Early Dating
What is staying grounded in dating? Being grounded in early dating is about staying present and focused on reality, without losing sight of your needs, boundaries and dating goals. It helps us go slower in the dating process, checking in with ourselves each step of the way so we can make better decisions. It’s about…
Love Bombing Vs. Genuine Interest: Spot The Difference
What is love bombing? Love bombing is when someone gives you excessive attention and affection to get you hooked on them. They’re showering you with affection, gifts and attention and it kind of boosts your self-esteem. Then the way you feel about yourself starts to become tied to how they treat you. Typically, someone love-bombs…
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Texting 101: How To Navigate Texting In Early Dating
Texting in early dating has a life of its own. There’s a lot more that goes into texting than you’d think. In this post, you’ll learn how to navigate texting before, after, and between dates, and who should text first. You’ll also learn general things to keep in mind about texting dynamics in early dating. …
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How To Define The Relationship The Right Way
What is defining the relationship? The moment you define the relationship (also known as DTR) is when you explicitly say, we are a couple. We are in a relationship. We’re doing the monogamy thing – or whatever it is that you’re aiming for. But the key here is that it’s a conversation between you and…
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How To Cope With Dating Burnout
Do you ever feel totally apathetic about dating? Or like just the idea of going on a date feels irritating? If that’s you, then you’re probably dealing with a case of dating burnout and that’s what this post is all about. https://youtu.be/II_zgyIoHfo Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple What does burnout feel like? If you’re…
How To Tell If They’re A Good Match
What’s a good match in dating? When I say good match, I mean someone who is potentially a good fit in terms of having a relationship with you. This is someone who has aligned relationship goals and who’s easy to talk to and be with. Having some alignment when it comes to values, life goals,…
12 Dating Rules I’d Have (If I Believed In Them)
Do you have any dating rules? If you google dating rules, there are hundreds of articles and videos from a very wide variety of outlets outlining what we should and shouldn’t be doing in dating. Honestly? I think these rules get in the way of our intuition. There are really only three rules in dating.…
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How To Move On From An Ex
Figuring out how to move on from a breakup can be frustrating, messy and painful. These tips will help make the process a little less emotionally exhausting and hopefully speed up the process just a little bit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwMpEusmkq4 Why is moving on so difficult? Do you ever find that you could get over someone you…