Category: Dating Dilemmas

How to figure out their dating intentions (without scaring them)

This question came from Instagram: “What are your thoughts on asking matches their dating intentions? I want to avoid time thieves!” Don’t we all. Here’s how to navigate this dating dilemma. Know your own dating intentions first. Rule of thumb: don’t ask questions that you don’t know the answer to yourself on a date, especially […]

They’re bad at texting, but they’re great in person

Navigating dating is tricky when your date is bad at texting. Are they interested in you, or are they just a bad texter? This common scenario can lead to frustration and misunderstanding. Does it mean they don’t like you if they’re not texting? If things are great in person, but they go silent when you’re […]

How to stop chasing unavailable people in dating

This question came from Instagram: “What are your tips for how to stop chasing unavailable people and getting out of the ‘he doesn’t want me’ spiral?” If you have more questions like the one above, sign up for my Dating FAQ guide, which provides quick, actionable answers to over 40 common dating questions. Here’s the […]

What to do if they’re still on dating apps (even after great dates with you)

It’s hard to know what to do when your date is still using dating apps. In today’s digital age, a new connection can fizzle or fall through the cracks in so many ways. However, as you navigate this journey, it’s common to encounter a situation where your potential partner remains active on the apps even […]

They’re great on paper, but you’re not attracted to them

When you meet someone who checks all your boxes but you’re not attracted to them, it’s hard to know what to do next. Do you keep dating them or hope attraction shows up? Should you give it more time, or should you cut ties early on? Let’s explore some strategies for navigating this common dating […]

They wanted another date and then disappeared

All the signs that another date would happen were there. Scenario: You’ve been on a few dates with someone who seemed genuinely interested in continuing the journey, only to find their communication gradually tapering off. They may have even said out loud, to your face, that they want another date! It’s a frustrating scenario. However, […]